“We constantly strive to give our life its form, but by copying,in spite of ourselves, like a drawing, the features of the person we are, not the person we should like to be.”
The Guermantes Way
Today I read in the NYTimes about a psychological study that made me reflect on that sentence from The Guermantes Way. Here’s the abstract published in Science (online) today:
“We measured the personalities, values, and preferences of more than 19,000 people who ranged in age from 18 to 68 and asked them to report how much they had changed in the past decade and/or to predict how much they would change in the next decade. Young people, middle-aged people, and older people all believed they had changed a lot in the past but would change relatively little in the future. People, it seems, regard the present as a watershed moment at which they have finally become the person they will be for the rest of their lives.”